sometimes i wonder why people get into affairs. like why would you do something to hurt someone who loves you so much / someone you loves ( or even loveD if that matters ). is that moment of happiness (?) worth risking losing someone so important to you? it really hurts me to see some of you getting into love triangles. some really close friends, some are just normal hi-bye friends, but still, i feel for you all.. all in all, i just want every single one of you to be happy. but will this happiness last long?

some people have affairs for sex. some just needs someone by his/her side. some crazes for love. some just wants to be happy. some, just get into affairs accidentally, gradually, with no previous intention into getting into one.. or maybe, one just doesnt know how to get out of one.

maybe some find it difficult to reject someone cause he/she doesnt want to lose a friend. so many different reasons, but what do one have to gain? temporary pleasure/happiness/love. im not assuming, its just that i really cannot understand.. how can one feel happy when you are always hanging onto something which may just disappear some day. how can one be happy when you need someone who doesnt need you ( maybe ? )

relationships are complicated enough w/o affairs, no ?

disclaimer : this if just what i feel. random, i know. doesnt mean that im against anyone / pinpointing anyone, okays? if ive insulted anyone, really sorry !